8 Tips For Dating Men Over 50

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15 Things to Consider When Dating Over 50

Meeting them in real life can be hard -- but here's something most 50-somethings don't know: With a little bit of effort, you can have incredible success with online dating! Just don't make the same mistakes 80% of men your age are making, which is this: Lots of men in their 50s get divorced and think their next girlfriend is going to be 35. Your next girlfriend isn't going to be 35. If you want it to work out with one of these women, you've got to do more than just ask them out. You've got to avoid making the four big, dumb mistakes all the other dudes are making. Being bad at dating. Wear, like, a button-down. Don't wear gross old jeans with holes in them. Remember: she will almost certainly have spent some time on her hair, clothes and makeup. Show her the same respect. Talking about your ex during the first date. Maybe not the second one, either. Maybe not for a long time after you start dating. That will leave a sour taste in her mouth and make her think you're not ready to date yet. Focus on having a good time, asking great questions, and listening while she answers them. Not paying for the date. Because, first of all, they won't be. Second, on the off chance that they are offended by a kind and generous gesture, it's best to avoid them. Do you really want to be with someone who gets offended that easily? That said, it's 2016, so anything could happen. She might insist she pay her own way, or even offer to pay for you. Whatever you're mutually comfortable with is fine. As I wrote in , increasing your charisma and authenticity will improve your personal and professional life. The thing is -- it can be super tricky to be authentic and charming when you've got first-date nerves. Here are a few tips to get you started. Chances are, the next thing you say is going to be a bit of a non-sequitur. I'll say it again: stop worrying about what you're going to say next. Staying present and truly listening will get you much further than some witty comment. As I wrote in , it only takes humans 17 milliseconds to notice and interpret an emotion on your face. But most of us misattribute what we see. We assume everything is about us. So just tell me! Basically, your brain is terrible at distinguishing fantasy from reality. That will help you get over your nerves, and even treat this person with a surprising amount of warmth. That will make them like you more, which will make them like you more. It's a beautiful cycle. Don't be a man-child. If you have a nice time on the date, tell her! After an amazing date, message her once. This is really hard for someone who is both lonely and excited about someone new. Although plenty of women have exciting, fulfilling sex lives in their 40s and 50s... But lots of people find this kind of touch extremely intimate -- after all, the primary goal is to show emotion and affection, not to have an orgasm. Which is why so many women find it uncomfortable when some dude they don't even know starts holding their hand, touching their face, or trying to kiss them. Of course, every woman is different. There is no algorithm you can memorize to tell you when to kiss her. There is no universal calendar of when to do different kinds of touch. Instead of relying on some bullshit you read on the internet, you need to pay attention and get your own read on the situation. But there are some pretty clear signs that she doesn't want to kiss. Remember: an unwanted kiss is disgusting. If you have to be quick, sneaky or forceful to get the kiss, you're doing it wrong, and the girl will definitely not be into it. Unless maybe she wants to but she's just not quite ready yet. Then she'll say no -- this time. She'll feel super safe and respected with you, which will help solidify your bond. Plenty but, admittedly, not all of girls are willing to make the first move! And it's super sexy when they do. If she's had a lot to drink, you should ask yourself whether she's really able to give consent right now. Especially if you're hoping to have a long-term thing with her. Kissing her when she's drunk is going to mess up your chances of ever having trust. Instead, they come after a moment. Perhaps you've been staring into each other's eyes -- then lips. Then eyes, then lips. Maybe she's touched the side of your hand with the side of her hand, and now you're holding hands. Parts of your bodies may be touching -- your arms, your legs. Maybe you've even pushed her hair off her face or brushed her cheek with your hand. Your bodies are gravitating towards each other... But even then, there's room for misinterpretation. AFTER you've had a moment, and you're feeling pretty certain this girl wants to kiss you, you can initiate the kiss. Go up to 90% of the way to her face... If consent is important to you which, if you're not a despicable person, it is , you will never go 100% of the way to her face. Let her go the last 10%. If she wants to kiss you, she will! One last thought: Before you get tied down, it might be worth checking a few items off your bucket list. So book that flight! Do your thing -- and you just might meet the right woman along the way. Want to know more? Sure I hear the old story it's what's inside the package not so much the wrapping but let's face it you want old wrinkly cellophane wrapping your package or a good old-fashioned just plain wrapper? Who you date is up to you. I'm just saying, lots of guys use that strategy... They might still end up dating younger, but it ends up being a 60-year-old with a 50-year-old, instead of a 50-year-old with a 40-year-old. I've been on three dates the past month. All three men showed up in wrinkled shirts, dirty tennis shoes, and two to three days growth of whiskers. This is the over 50 crowd. What's with these men? They are old enough to know better. Guess they didn't have their wives there to tell them how to dress. Men if you want a girlfriend or companion at least try and impress her on the first date. There is alot of competition out there so get with it. I'm surprised by the number of 70+ yr old men that contact me on dating sites. Some of the comments I receive are shocking. A clear way to alienate me. You are right on about the touching. I went to the ladies room on a date. He was waiting for me outside in the hall, pushed me against the wall and stuck his tongue down my throat. Still hoping to meet a month weirdo. Honey, it's a blog post, not a scholarly article. I'm allowed to be colloquial. But if we're going to be nitpicky, what you didn't like wasn't my grammar. It was that I used slang. Those are two different things. One must always remember that everyone is different. IE I recently had a 57 year old male friend marry a good looking 24 year old native Califorian born female and he is not rich, conformable yes. She just wanted a stable serious male that wanted children. Two years and two babies later they are very happy together. The way to do this more redally is to visit cultures where big age diffences are more common and culturally accepted like Columbia or the Philapeans. Funny thing is, it's written by a woman who actually thinks this is exclusive to men. Is the brat also attempting to reenforce the myth of the older man usually desiring the much younger, beautiful woman, who in turn usually desires the much older, richer man? I'm not sure I quite understand your argument, but I'd like to. I'm also not pretending this is exclusive to one gender or the other. I'm just sharing my experience as a matchmaker who worked mostly with single women, and therefore knows some of the main criticisms single women had after first dates. This is completely wrong. This was clearly written by a woman trying to change men to make them better for her tastes, pretending to be an article designed to help men get what they want. This is only going to confuse men and frustrate more women. Lying and manipulation don't work to build relationships or anything real.

Wear, like, a button-down. Who you date is up to you. She might insist she pay her own way, or even ring to pay for you. Hollywood has messed with our heads on this one. Frequency about 1 post per month. I almost forgot the profile on seniormatch because I don't think the online dating will work for me. People simply wanting companions can make connections on SeniorMatch and autobus to create a new future.